Learn What Women Actually Want.
Get Dating Help From a Woman in Tech
Why Dating Feels So Hard
You have the career, the brains, the work ethic. But dating? That’s a different language.
You’re spending:
$$$ on dates that don’t go anywhere
Hours swiping, texting, and overthinking
$$ on apps with zero real matches
Only to end up feeling confused, frustrated, and tired. And most advice? It’s cringe, vague, or from men on Reddit just as stuck as you are.
Why I am The One Who Can Help You
Sara Lee, Founder
27F
CA
Software Engineer (ex-Google)
Hi, I’m Sara, a software engineer. I’ve worked in tech, dated in tech, and helped so many friends enter genuine relationships with amazing women they used to think were out of reach.
I get how your brain works and I understand “hers” too. The tone of a “lol,” the subtle ways interest shows up, and what actually makes her want to keep talking.
I know what kinds of women are genuinely drawn to smart men like you. I’ll help you understand your strengths, recognize what you need in a partner, and present yourself in a way that’s attractive to the women. I’m confident I can help you walk away ready to build a real, lasting relationship with someone who truly fits your lifestyle.
How I Can Help You Find The Right Person
I offer a few different ways to work with me — whether you want 1:1 coaching or behind-the-scenes help.
1:1 Coaching
Personalized Zoom sessions tailored to you — where we fix what’s not working and build your dating confidence.
Behind-The-Scenes
Too shy or busy for live coaching? I offer async help too via texting, email, and feedback documents.
Live Events
Speed dating events for people in tech — talk about databases and win over a date.
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